It's funny in a weird way - many of those *also* apply when you go and tell people you're gay. Some level of variation... but the same "false empathy" and smell of denial...
If someone opens up to you... start by listening to them. All the more if you're "surprised"... https://twitter.com/mykola/status/1379025734279307267
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